Congratulations, Inquirer readers — you made it to Friday! Hopefully, you did so without having any major breakdowns this week, except for the hours spent pondering what is life after Instagram went down. However, if you did, no worries! We don’t judge.

Today, we take a look at how TikTok is turning troublesome for some area schools, particularly the bathrooms. Then, we bring you the inspiring story of an Afghan woman who fled the country when her life was endangered by the Taliban takeover. She’s now in New Jersey, where everything she once knew is no more.

And, can you imagine anything worse than waking up with a cockroach in the bed next to you? What about it being in your toaster? That’s what life has become for this woman from North Philly.

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TikTok challenges in schools

It was a little weird, Ridley School District Superintendent Lee Ann Wentzel said, when custodians in one of the district’s elementary schools reported this fall that a toilet had been clogged with paper towels. Then it happened at another school.

“That’s when we started to find out that there’s this little challenge going on,” Wentzel said. In videos that have swept TikTok this school year and commanded the attention of children across the country, students have filmed themselves stripping soap dispensers from walls and vandalizing school bathrooms — acts they’ve dubbed “devious licks.” After reports of bathroom havoc began circulating, the social media platform removed videos tagged with that phrase, though not all have been taken down.

And it’s not just stolen soap dispensers. Some schools are wary about a new “slap a teacher” challenge that has been circulating for October, while others are dealing with other social media-induced misbehavior: On Thursday, Cheltenham High School briefly went on lockdown after a threat the school’s principal attributed to “the result of a social media challenge on TikTok.”

The principal, Renato Lajara, didn’t specify the threat received. But he pointed to a trend: “They’ll put it on social media, like, ‘Oh hey, we’ll pay you $300 if you call a bomb threat into school,’” Lajara said. “Or ‘We’ll pay you $500 if you steal Mr. So-and-So’s laptop from his classroom and post a picture of it.’ So it’s a challenge.”

The Pennsylvania State Police warned schools last month about the bathroom vandalism trend, and some local agencies and districts have been alerting parents about newly emerging challenges.

Read more about how TikTok is turning troublesome for area schools from reporters Kristen A. Graham and Maddie Hanna.

On a military base in South Jersey, an Afghan woman plans a new life. ‘I’m starting from zero, like a newborn.’

Everything’s gone.

Her job, her home, her friends, her country.

Her parents are in hiding in Afghanistan. And she’s here in America, living on a military base in South Jersey with thousands of other evacuees. The first time she even heard the name “New Jersey” was the day she arrived, six weeks ago.

Hili Chakhansuri, 30, can’t overcome the incredulity of having been hurtled from her homeland and across the globe. That it actually happened, the government collapsing, her life endangered by her work supporting the Americans – it’s very much still all a blur.

Pray for me. Those were the last words she said to her parents before heading into the chaotic crowds outside the Kabul airport.

“I’m starting from zero, like a newborn,” Chakhansuri said in a phone call from Joint Base McGuire-Dix-Lakehurst, where she’s among some 9,500 Afghans awaiting resettlement in the U.S. “But there is hope. I came to a place that I can see hope. I can see a future for myself as a woman.”

Today about 50,000 Afghans are living on eight U.S. military installations, and it’s uncertain when they may start moving to permanent homes. Immigration processing is taking time, and the nationwide housing crunch has limited the availability of affordable apartments.

Chakhansuri doesn’t know where she’ll go, which state or city. But she hopes she gets there soon.

Read Chakhansuri’s full story here.

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