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Padma Lakshmi had trouble fitting in

Padma Lakshmi: Trouble fitting in Teenagers will do almost anything to fit in. Especially folks who seem foreign. Padma Lakshmi knows. The Indian-born cookbook author and Top Chef host writes of her struggle to assimilate in her memoir, Love, Loss, and What We Ate.

Padma Lakshmi, cookbook author and "Top Chef" host writes in her memoir of feeling torn between two cultures - her Indian heritage and her adopted American ways.
Padma Lakshmi, cookbook author and "Top Chef" host writes in her memoir of feeling torn between two cultures - her Indian heritage and her adopted American ways.Read moreCharles Sykes/Bravo

Padma Lakshmi: Trouble fitting in

Teenagers will do almost anything to fit in. Especially folks who seem foreign.

Padma Lakshmi knows. The Indian-born cookbook author and Top Chef host writes of her struggle to assimilate in her memoir, Love, Loss, and What We Ate.

"I was this tall when I was 13 in eighth grade," Lakshmi, 45, who is 5-foot-9, tells People. "I had a very long neck. I used to get called E.T., Skeletor, giraffe, you name it."

Afraid she'd be picked on for being Indian, the memoirist became two people - an American teen around her friends and an Indian girl when she was at home.

She insisted people call her Angelique all through high school.

"I didn't feel any different. I didn't feel any less American, even though I ate rice and curry," she says. "But they didn't feel I was as American."

Splitting herself up between two cultures has had a strange effect. "I was never really at home in one and never really an outsider in the other," she says.

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