Dear Abby | Poem a lesson for cheating daughter

DEAR ABBY: A poem ran in your column years ago about looking at yourself in the mirror. My daughter is popular at school, but she was caught cheating on an exam, and I want to give it to her.

- Nancy in New Jersey

DEAR NANCY: Read on:

When you get what you want in your struggle for self

And the world makes you king for a day,

Just go to a mirror and look at yourself

And see what THAT man has to say.

For it isn't your father or mother or wife

Whose judgment upon you must pass,

The fellow whose verdict counts most in your life

Is the one staring back from the glass.

Some people might think you're a straight-shootin' chum

And call you a wonderful guy.

But the man in the glass says you're only a bum

If you can't look him straight in the eye.

He's the fellow to please, never mind all the rest,

For he's with you clear to the end,

And you've passed your most dangerous test

If the guy in the glass is your friend.

You may fool the whole world down the pathway of years

And get pats on the back as you pass,

But your final reward will be heartache and tears

If you've cheated the man in the glass. *

- Author Unknown