He's got a foot fetish and she needs advice

Q: THE new guy I'm seeing just confessed to having a foot fetish. I'm intrigued. My question: how do you turn on a guy with this kind of fixation? Really high, sexy shoes, but what else?

Mia: Wow, I'm impressed at your openness, girlfriend. A lot of women would have said, "Ick!" But you, Miss Sexy Free Spirit, you've decided to embrace what can be a very erotic thing - provided you've had a recent pedicure.

Here are my suggestions: Wear stockings on your next date and let him slowly pull them down your legs. Once things heat up even more, put your feet on his shoulders and let him suck your toes. Then there's always your basic "foot work." Have fun.

Steve: Ick!

Q: It's been just my son and me since his mom died of breast cancer 10 years ago. I recently did something dumb. I had sex with his girlfriend. It happened about four or five times when he was at work. As far as I can tell, it didn't change anything between her and him. He never suspected. I regret it and feel like a jerk. Now he's thinking of marrying her. She ain't nobody to be marrying. Should I tell him?

Mia: You're in a big mess, dude. If you don't tell your son and he finds out from his girlfriend, he's going to be pissed. If you tell him up front, he's going to be pissed.

I suggest you get a trusted third party to help you through this. A clergyman or maybe a therapist. You're going to need all the support you can get.

Steve: You've stuck your "nose" into his business once. You're lucky it didn't get chopped off. Pretend this never happened and keep your mouth shut.