Kinky's OK, but she goes a bit too fur

Q: Me and this girl have been seeing each for about a month, and out of the blue one day she announces that she's a furry. She brought out this cat costume with ears and a tail she likes to wear to this dance party she goes to. She even answers the phone when I call by saying "meow."

I thought it was sort of cute in the beginning, but she's a grown woman with a kid. She's in this stuff deep. We've talked about it but she keeps on telling me that this stuff she's into has nothing do with sex. Is she going to want me to do it to her in that get up? I'm not sure what's what with this weird girl.

Mia: Furries belong to a fascinating subculture of fun people who think it's cool to dress up in animal costumes, also known as fursuits, when they go out. They adopt fursonas - in your girlfriend's case she meows and probably tries to mimic cats in other ways. It's not necessarily sexual, though some people, sometimes called "furverts," do say that there can be an erotic component. Before you write off your feline friend, why not ask if she'll take you to her next fur con (furry convention).

Steve: See if you can get her to forget the fur and dress up as Catwoman.

Q: So, I'm with this girl not long ago who refused to kiss me on the lips when we were getting busy. It set me back. I kept trying and she kept turning her face away. I asked her if anything was wrong and she said no. Since I was already naked, I decided to go ahead and finish. I've seen her at the bar we met at a couple of times since then but she just brushes me off. Did I do something wrong? Besides the no-kissing thing, the sex was hot.

Mia: Maybe. Either your breath was awful or she was trying her best not to have some sort of connection with the man she was having sex with. If I were you, I'd let this go.

Steve: It's gotta be the breath. When did you last see a dentist? Even if you use mouthwash you can still stink if there's a hidden tooth infection.