Scrolling through photos on Instagram or reading updates on Facebook can be draining. It can seem as if everyone else is having more fun or achieving greater success or getting more likes for their photos and status updates.
Yet social media is also how many people stay connected with long-distance friends or cousins they’d otherwise see only once a year at family reunions.
So how can people reap the benefits of social media without letting it harm their mental health?
Researchers have come up with a few easy-to-follow tips. But first, what are the dangers that social media users may face?
Yet this body of research often faces the criticism that people who already have mental-health challenges are likely to spend more time on social media, rather than social media being the cause of their illness.
One study that followed British teenagers over eight years found social media has limited effects on the typical adolescent’s well-being. It was mostly harmful for vulnerable groups, such as teens predisposed to depression and anxiety.
Because most studies focus on specific populations — teens or young girls, for instance — it’s hard to know for sure how social media affects mental health for the overall population.
Limit when and where you use social media. Using social media can interrupt and interfere with in-person communications. Consider turning your social media notifications off or even putting your phone in airplane mode during meals with family and friends, conversations with your partner, or important meetings at work.
Try to not keep your phone or computer in your bedroom, or use social media right before bed; studies show that using devices at this time disrupts your sleep.
Consider scheduling regular multi-day breaks from social media. Several studies have shown that a five-day or week-long break from Facebook can lead to lower stress and higher life satisfaction. If that seems too extreme, just limiting your social media use to 30 minutes a day can reduce feelings of loneliness and depression.
Pay attention to what you do and how you feel. Instead of mindlessly scrolling through Facebook or watching multiple Snapchat stories, try to be mindful every time you use social media.
Do you check Twitter first thing in the morning because you need to be informed about breaking news or because it’s an ingrained habit? Does viewing photos of your friend’s vacation make you happy or envious?
Each time you check social media, think about why you’re doing it, how it makes you feel, and whether that’s really what you want.
Narrow your online networks and pay more attention to your real-life relationships. Over time, most people accumulate online friends and organizations they follow that are no longer relevant. Some of the content is boring, annoying, or even upsetting. So unfollow, mute, or hide them.
One study found that people whose social media included inspirational stories experienced gratitude, vitality and awe, so consider adding a few motivational or funny sites to your feed.
It’s also important to remember that online connections cannot replace real-life interactions. Humans have an innate need for connection and belonging. Spending time with friends in person and building networks off-line can be protective for your mental health.
Researchers are finding ways to harness the power of social media to benefit mental health, too.
Studies have shown that analyzing language from Facebook posts can help predict whether a user is depressed up to three months before the person receives a medical diagnosis. Another study found that the color, lighting, and symmetry of photos shared on Twitter may give insight into who is at risk for anxiety and depression.
Smartphones can also be portals to helpful tools, like meditation apps — some of which have been shown to make people feel less lonely and increase the number of in-person social interactions they have each day.