Each year, tens of thousands of children diagnosed with autism, from mild to severe, enter adulthood and leave the safe confines of schools and their services behind.
"It's like, where is the journey going?" said Smith-Currier, whose children Corinne, 16, and Cameron, 14, have autism. "When you have a typical child, there are goals: You go to high school; you go to college; you have a career and 2.5 children. My daughter is 16 with the mental capacity of a 12-year-old. Will my son ever get married? I don't know the answer. Will my daughter ever drive a car? I don't know the answer. Will she ever find love?
"I won't be around forever. I want to know they're safe. I want to know there will be somebody to look after them, that they won't be forgotten and can lead productive lives."
At its core, autism is a disorder of brain development. It affects people's ability to communicate or emotionally connect to others.
Estimated some 30 years go to affect about 1 in 10,000 people, the
The disorder's cause and the reasons for its precipitous rise are not known. The scope of its effects is vast.
In some instances, people with autism are uncommunicative, lost in their own worlds and unable to care for their most basic needs. Others, such as individuals with Asperger's syndrome, are highly intelligent, talented or even savant.
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"I stayed awake all last night worrying if I could get my ideas across to the others today," she said. But everyone was receptive at her table.
"What is known," said Swindler, "is that when you get to numbers like 1 in 150 or 1 in 100, you can be assured that every single person in the community has autism touching either them or their family or friends."
"I like it," Beeler said this week. "It's not easy."
She quickly found that it only required making a detailed list.
"If, for instance, I said, 'Go down to the bathroom and clean the sinks, mirrors and take out the trash,' he may only remember one thing," she said.
Now, his supervisor,
"I don't check on him any different than anyone else," Knight said. "He's very detailed. He shows up to work every day."
Yet few companies are as accepting or patient with autistic individuals, Swindler said.
Thus the town hall meeting on setting priorities: employment, housing, safety and recreation:
Employment: "They don't interview well," Swindler said. "If they do get hired, often there is some social issue, a misunderstanding in communication, and some people don't know they can ask for help."
High-functioning individuals aren't eligible under
"He is so proud of the fact that he earns money," Weinberg said. "That self-esteem is critical to feeling he is living an independent life and being productive and paying taxes and contributing to society."
Housing: Already overwhelmed with requests for group homes and other shelters, states aren't ready for the influx of autistic adults.
Health care is another safety issue. Autistic adults often are denied insurance coverage.
Recreation: "We know that people with autism feel isolated in their communities. We want people to be able to do all those things that everybody else does," Swindler said.
Programs for those with autism continue to grow across the region.
"He is severely, autistic," she said. "He has limited verbal skills. He is not going to ever sit across the table from me and ask me how my day is. He is not going to prom. He is not going to drive .... In the beginning, you grieve the loss of a neuro-typical child."
But, she said, "We are resilient and we are resourceful. It's not about talking about the problem. It's about talking about the solutions."