ARIES (March 21-April 19). Life is not a reality TV show where you're either "in" or you're "out." Relationships often go along indefinitely, a little up in the air, with various degrees of involvement. Don't be in a rush to categorize where you are with people.

TAURUS (April 20-May 20). Keeping yourself safe from harm includes controlling the distance between you and people you love or could possibly love. It might help to think of yourself as a scientist, collecting data.

GEMINI (May 21-June 21). You're willing to fall in love with an idea, and you are just as willing to step back and say, "This is not the right choice for me." You'll make stellar decisions that favor your long-term happiness.

CANCER (June 22-July 22). To make an emotional investment today will be riskier than other kinds of investing. It will also be more difficult to recover from if it doesn't go right. What you're doing is mighty brave.

LEO (July 23-Aug. 22). You may not like the notions being brought to the table, but let them air to discover how strong they really are. The censor will lose in the end because strong ideas find the fuel to keep the fire alive.

VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22). You're not here to close the deal at all costs. You're here to make the deal that's right for you. This should include the higher good, but don't get overly wrapped up in the other side of it.

LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23). It would be fun to have certain people for friends, but alas, there are appropriate friendships and inappropriate friendships, and those who can't figure out the difference are asking for trouble.

SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 21). There's no time for critique or complaint today. If you're lamenting all that's wrong with society, you'll be distracted from the fact that you get to choose how to make this world better.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21). Someone will make you proud to be a leader and mentor. You don't ask anyone to be perfect; you just ask them to show up and try. When they knock it out of the park, you'll beam.

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19). Nothing you experience will go to waste. Your mind will pick up on the details you need to solve a problem. You'll be a regular Sherlock Holmes!

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18). You have not always been able to say that you like your life, but now you can, and this will be reflected in your activities of the day. You'll agree to propositions that look, sound, and feel "so you."

PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20). There's more being asked of you, so some self-care activities might slip through the cracks. But the sacrifices you make will be worthwhile. Besides, you can catch up tomorrow.

TODAY'S BIRTHDAY (Nov. 30). You are thoughtful, smart, and willing to go the extra mile for people who need you. Because you're such a good friend, you'll get exclusive opportunities. Take advantage of the chance to see new places, even though this will come at a cost. The plot twist in March will favor you: Hold on. Aries and Pisces adore you. Your lucky numbers are: 30, 2, 22, 14, and 41.