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A group of seniors is hunting for the best South Jersey cheesesteak. Have they found it?

The group met playing poker at a 55+ community in Moorestown. After a visit to Donkey's, the retirees are trying a new cheesesteak every month to find something better than the last.

The group of friends stands for a portrait outside of Johnny Longhots in Marlton on Sept. 18. From left to right: Ralph DiSibio, 85; Bob McDermott, 83; Gary Mazzucco, 78; Paul Ferretti, 79; John DeSilvio, 74; and Mike Mouber, 79.
The group of friends stands for a portrait outside of Johnny Longhots in Marlton on Sept. 18. From left to right: Ralph DiSibio, 85; Bob McDermott, 83; Gary Mazzucco, 78; Paul Ferretti, 79; John DeSilvio, 74; and Mike Mouber, 79.Read moreAidan T. Gallo / Staff Photographer

On Friday, Ralph DiSibio and his friends arrived early, as they usually do, at a cheesesteak joint in Marlton between an Advance Auto Parts and a dry cleaner.

The men wore matching T-shirts picturing a loaded cheesesteak set aflame, except for Gary Mazzucco, who hasn’t retired yet and doesn’t have the time, nor the medical clearance, to eat a pound of meat and cheese over and over again.

“Ralph, I gotta order a salad. I can’t eat a cheesesteak,” Mazzucco, 78, said.

“That’s why he doesn’t have a T-shirt,” one of his friends chimed in.

Mazzucco ordered a salad. Then, a few minutes later, he changed his order after he spotted wings on the menu, which opened the conversation to teasing. What kind of salad is that?

“It’s got celery,” Mazzucco said.

When he offered to share, most of the group passed.

Johnny Longhots, a pizza and sandwich joint “where Philadelphia meets New York,” is the fourth stop on the retirees’ monthslong quest to find South Jersey’s best cheesesteak, preceded by trips to Donkey’s Place in Camden, Bricco Coal Fired Pizza, and Chick’s Deli in Cherry Hill.

The crew refuses to cross the bridge for cheesesteaks. They want to avoid tolls, and with thousands of options in Philly, they’re not sure they’ll live long enough to eat them all. Sitting in a bright red booth, the seniors were close enough to the city, their backs to a wall of Philly motifs. A picture of the LOVE statue hung above Mike Mouber’s head.

DiSibio, 85, used to work in the nuclear waste industry, and Mazzucco is an accountant. Mouber, 79, was a lawyer; Paul Ferretti, 79, an investment banker, and John DeSilvio, 78, a contractor. Bob McDermott, 83, worked for the U.S. Postal Service. None of them have long careers as food critics or restaurateurs, but they’ve eaten many a sandwich.

The group hasn’t found its prized meal yet — Chick’s was the favorite so far — but they say they’re uniquely qualified to discover it.

“If you count Gary, there’s over 400 years of experience,” DiSibio said, settled at the head of the table.

The seniors met years ago at a 55+ community in Moorestown, the Mews at Laurel Creek, where most of them still live. They’ve kept their friendship going at the poker table, where they compete every Thursday.

To mix things up, the group recently visited Donkey’s Place to try what many South Jerseyans have called the best cheesesteak around. But the men weren’t fans, including those who have long frequented Camden’s food scene. They were put off by the kaiser roll.

“We weren’t thrilled one way or another,” said DiSibio, a Camden native.

So they decided to keep searching. They’re working on a spreadsheet, though there’s no formal rating system or numerical values attributed to each cheesesteak. They establish their thoughts on the firmness of the bread, the spice of the hot peppers, the meltability of the cheese, and how much meat they get for their money through overlapping conversations that usually drift into sports, politics, religion, and movie debates. Sandwiches are generally considered “good” or, well, not.

Their ultimate cheesesteak, at least according to a printed list in large text, must include: meat, onions, cheese, a roll, and seasoning. The “ambiance of the establishment” only matters if it’s particularly remarkable. They always get fried onions if they can, and hot peppers on the side.

Jimmy Lees, an employee at Johnny Longhots, made sure most of their cheesesteaks came out quickly, after a lengthy back-and-forth between the men on whether to get provolone or Cooper Sharp. (The majority went with Cooper Sharp.)

Lees, a Philly native, said it was a new thing to witness a group of seniors hunting for the region’s best cheesesteak, but it’s not so strange.

“It’s something to do,” Lees said.

As they ate, there wasn’t much commentary about the cheesesteaks. They debated what year The Godfather novel came out, and DeSilvio’s forthcoming trip to Croatia. They compared their quest to Indiana Jones in 1981.

“This is like Harrison Ford in Raiders of the Lost Ark,” McDermott said. “We’re looking for the holy grail of cheesesteak.”

It didn’t take long for the group to finish their sandwiches, about a half hour or so. DeSilvio wrapped up half of his sandwich for his wife. McDermott said he enjoyed his. Others said the sandwich was good, but maybe the bread could’ve been crustier. It was the smallest of the cheesesteaks they’d eaten so far. They debated their choice again, both praising and regretting the Cooper Sharp.

“I don’t have any of these opinions,” Mouber said.

They joked about their cholesterol meds, and that it’s a good thing cardiologists live in their Moorestown development. They said they won’t know the true rating of their cheesesteaks until later in the day, when their digestive systems get to work.

The group plans to visit at least one cheesesteak joint a month for as long as they feel up to it. Their current list includes Irishtown Steaks, Pudge’s Pub, and Champs Cheesesteaks and Hoagies, among others. DiSibio said he hopes to get through at least 10 spots before they call it quits.

When asked for final thoughts on their sandwiches at Johnny Longhots, Mouber spoke for his friends.

“We all hope it’s not our last,” he said.