Sideshow: Hef to remain a dashing bachelor

Our heart goes out to

Crystal Harris

in these, her first hours of freedom. (So terrifying to be free!)

The 25-year-old fledgling model-actress has dumped her knight in shining armor Hugh Hefner at the altar. (Well, not literally: The wedding was set for Saturday.)

"The wedding is off," the octogenarian hubby-to-be tweeted Tuesday. "Crystal has had a change of heart."

TMZ says the twice-divorced Hef and his fiancee, who became engaged on Christmas Eve, had "a nasty argument" over the weekend.

What happened? Did Crystal wake up and realize she might not be a fairy-tale princess and the Playboy Mansion might not be a gleaming white and silver-sheened castle straight out of Arthurian legend?

He's the moral compass for a whole generation of citizens. So what are we to make of

Justin Timberlake

's admission that he has a close personal relationship with marijuana?

The former Mouseketeer and Britney Spears soul mate said yes, he's "absolutely" into ganja.

"The only thing pot does for me is it gets me to stop thinking," he says.

"Sometimes I have a brain that needs to be turned off." When is it OK to turn off your brain?

Mildred Baena

, who for 20 years served as

Arnold Schwarzenegger

's housekeeper - and sometime lover - has broken her media silence. Baena tells Hello! mag that when she informed her 13-year-old son,

Joseph

, that the Governator was his dad, he said, "Cool!"

Baena said Arnold never talked to her about whether the boy was his. "I knew Arnold was the father," she says, "But [Arnold] never said anything to me."

Baena says she received nothing but support from Arnold's wife, Maria Shriver, after she told her employer about the affair.

"I have so much love and respect for Maria," Baena says. "She was so strong. She cried with me."

Bruce Springsteen

on Tuesday confirmed that his friend and

E Street Band

saxophonist

Clarence Clemons

had a massive stroke Sunday night.

"By now, many of you have heard that our beloved comrade and sax player Clarence Clemons has suffered a serious stroke," the Boss said. "While all initial signs are encouraging, Clarence will need much care and support to achieve his potential once again. . . . this is a time for us all to share in a hopeful spirit that can . . . inspire Clarence."

Jada Pinkett Smith

's medical show on TNT,

HawthoRNe

, already stars

Marc Anthony

, so why not invite his wife,

Jennifer Lopez

, to do a guest spot?

"I don't think so," Marc tells USA Today. "That would be too close to home. It's hard enough to be a Nick Renata and make people tap into that suspension of disbelief," he says, referring to his character.

Though the

Peter Nero and the Philly Pops

Independence Day Concert tradition appeared to be dying on the eve of its 10th anniversary, last-minute funding was engineered over the weekend by Rep.

Robert Brady

and

Mayor Nutter

. So the show will go on at 8:30 p.m. July 3 at Independence Mall.

Brady is a longtime Pops supporter, said music director Nero, and then some. "In recent years, he has become the go-to guy in Philadelphia when our traditions become threatened in tough financial times," Nero said.

"As long as I represent Pennsylvania's First Congressional District . . . there will be a Philly Pops concert on Independence Mall," Brady said.

Expect to be joined by 15,000 of your nearest and dearest.

More immediately, Nero and his brass section will invade Reading Terminal Market Wednesday at 12:30 p.m. for a 45-minute concert. You can't call it a flash mob when a grand piano must first be installed.

"SideShow" on Tuesday identified Dartmouth incorrectly. The Ivy League school is named Dartmouth College, not

University

.

Accomplished wife and mother

Tori Spelling

writes on her blog (

» READ MORE: www.torispelling.com

) that you shouldn't go to bed angry after having a fight with your spouse (

Dean McDermott

in her case).

She has a unique strategy to heal the divide. People.com breaks it down: Listen, communicate, apologize, think happy thoughts, and say "I love you." Tori and Dean are expecting their third child.

The

Spider-Man

films must not pay much: Ex-Spidey

Tobey Maguire

got a job modeling clothes in Prada's fall/winter 2011 catalog. According to USAToday.com, Prada says Tobey looks "transfixed and pensive" in the photo spread, "full of vibrant intensity and mystery." . . . What would

Jennifer Aniston

do if she weren't a movie star? "Maybe an interior designer," Jen tells Marie Claire mag. "I spent a lot of time doing my current house, and it's beautiful. . . . It's like a beautiful work of art." . . .

Nicolas Cage

met with a judge Tuesday in Los Angeles to try to settle a lawsuit filed by ex-gf

Christina Fulton

over money and property she says he owes her.