It may be ‘A Different World,’ but ageism and misogyny still rule

The reboot of A Different World on Netflix is a welcome distraction from ruminating about the upcoming midterm elections and worrying about whether AI will kill us all.

I’ve enjoyed getting reacquainted with the characters from The Cosby Show spinoff, which originally debuted in 1987 and is set on the campus of the fictitious HBCU Hillman College. The show’s leads, Whitley Gilbert, played by Jasmine Guy, and Dwayne Wayne, played by Kadeem Hardison, have gone from being undergraduates to serving as the president and first lady of Hillman. They both look considerably older, and therein lies the proverbial rub.

Hardison, who was a skinny kid with flip-up glasses during his days on the show, is heavier now and has gray hair. Guy, who in our modern vernacular would have been considered a WCW back in the day, has visibly matured, too. At age 64, she’s refined, elegant, graceful, and still attractive, but she doesn’t look 25 anymore and — despite the vitriol she’s getting on social media — that’s completely natural and not a bad thing.

This shouldn’t be a big deal. Maturing — emotionally and physically — is part of life. But from the way some commenters have criticized Guy for looking older, you’d think she was the only one on the show who has been touched by the hands of Father Time.

I take umbrage at some of the online vitriol. I was a young woman myself when the show first aired and have gotten older right along with the cast members. An awful lot has happened since the show ended in 1993.

Guy must have read some of the terrible things people have been saying online about her appearance because on Monday, she addressed them by posting on social media: “The internet can be brutal to women as we grow older. It asks us to celebrate life while criticizing every sign that we’ve lived it.”

Some national cultures venerate older people, but that’s not so here in the United States. We are obsessed with beauty and youth, which is why TikTok filters and AI-generated “de-aging” photos proliferate. Older women in all walks of life don’t always get the respect they deserve. It irritates some people when older females refuse to fade quietly into the sunset. An estimated two out of three female workers over 50 regularly face ageism, according to a survey by AARP.

Former Secretary of State Hillary Clinton experienced this when she ran for president in 2016. Instead of being praised for launching a presidential bid when she was 68, she faced questions about her age. Donald Trump, who happens to be two years Clinton’s senior, publicly mocked her after she contracted pneumonia on the campaign trail and claimed she lacked the stamina to be president. Trump also accused her of not looking presidential enough for the job.

You’d think female Republicans would have automatically disqualified him for that. Instead, many nodded right along with his ageist, sexist rhetoric and most voted for him. This is one reason why America is in the situation it is today, with a narcissistic megalomaniac running the country.

Deep-seated bias against older women might also be what keeps America from electing a female president during our lifetime. I respect former CNN anchor Don Lemon and his work as an independent journalist. But Lemon uttered what a lot of voters thought when he said on air in 2023 that then-GOP presidential candidate Nikki Haley, who was 51, “isn’t in her prime.” He went on to say, “If you google when is a woman in her prime, it will say 20s and 30s and 40s.”

Meanwhile, white male politicians don’t have to waste inordinate amounts of time convincing skeptics that their advanced age doesn’t automatically disqualify them from holding elected office. Female candidates shouldn’t have to, either. The same should apply to women in other walks of life, as well.

It’s A Different World, all right. But when it comes to ageist bias against women, some things haven’t changed a bit.