Advice ChatA beloved Eagles player moved to our neighborhood. Should we pretend he's not a Super Bowl champion?!"What do you think if the neighbors all conspired together to throw a neighborhood party and invited this Bird over?"Earl Hopkins and Stephanie Farr Is it rude to turn down a Fourth of July barbecue because it's 1,000 degrees?Rosa Cartagena and Mike Newall Do we kick a neighbor out of our HOA group chat?Kiki Aranita My husband is a new soccer fan and wants to spend $1,000 on World Cup ticketsRosa Cartagena and Abigail Covington My partner and I can’t agree on whether the AC should be 70 or 80 degreesEarl Hopkins and Stephanie Farr AdvertisementI keep running into my ex at our local bars. Do I have to find new ones?"Who says it has to keep being awkward?"Dugan Arnett and Beatrice Forman I'm worried I'm too fancy for our oldest friends, not fancy enough for new ones. What do I do?A simple wings test could solve the problem.Elizabeth Wellington and Mike Newall My neighbors treat the sidewalk like their personal patio. Am I rude for wanting quiet after 10 p.m.?"Heck, they could bring a six-pack with them and I’d bet it would help make broaching the subject even easier."Rosa Cartagena and Stephanie Farr We moved our family to the suburbs and it's not going well. Should we move back?"There are different benefits to living in the suburbs (nature!) vs. the city (culture!)."Abigail Covington, Mike Newall, and Evan Weiss Is my boyfriend worth the gas money to Jersey?"It would grow old quick, again, if love weren’t involved."Abigail Covington and Jason Nark My boyfriend took me to his ex’s restaurant ... three times. Am I part of a psychological experiment?"Is there any meal in this city worth a humiliation ritual?"Elizabeth Wellington and Rosa Cartagena My neighbors are too chatty. How do I go home without being rude?"Maybe start yawning as you walk up the stairs, slump your shoulders, really sell it."Abigail Covington and Mike Newall My roommate's girlfriend is basically living with us. At what point can I ask her to pay rent?"It's about boundaries, not rent."Beatrice Forman and Elizabeth Wellington Someone keeps putting half-empty iced coffee cups on my steps. What do I do?"Talk to your neighbors. You might not be the only one."Earl Hopkins and Abigail Covington My boyfriend never wants to leave his Philly neighborhood. Is that a red flag?"Maybe don’t start by accusing them of having a side piece."Beatrice Forman and Abigail Covington My neighbor's fertilizer smells awful. What can I do?"Maybe the smell will go away, but what do you do if they keep putting it down?"Elizabeth Wellington and Mike Newall Should I fake being sick so I can go to the Phillies’ home opener?"I do think that 'I have to go to a baseball game' should be an acceptable reason to take a sick day in Philadelphia."Aubrey Whelan and Sam Ruland Do I make up an excuse or tell the truth to get out of a Shore house plan?"Shore houses are expensive. Time is precious."Amy S. Rosenberg and Mike Newall How do I trim my neighbor's tree without starting another feud?"The question is, do we do the hacking in the middle of the night? Or boldly in broad open daylight?"Evan Weiss, Elizabeth Wellington, and Abigail Covington Two random teenagers threw snowballs at me, a grown man. What should I do?"Snowballs aren’t fun and games to me."Evan Weiss, Jason Nark, and Mike Newall See more storiesAdvertisement
A beloved Eagles player moved to our neighborhood. Should we pretend he's not a Super Bowl champion?!"What do you think if the neighbors all conspired together to throw a neighborhood party and invited this Bird over?"Earl Hopkins and Stephanie Farr
A beloved Eagles player moved to our neighborhood. Should we pretend he's not a Super Bowl champion?!"What do you think if the neighbors all conspired together to throw a neighborhood party and invited this Bird over?"Earl Hopkins and Stephanie Farr
Is it rude to turn down a Fourth of July barbecue because it's 1,000 degrees?Rosa Cartagena and Mike Newall
Is it rude to turn down a Fourth of July barbecue because it's 1,000 degrees?Rosa Cartagena and Mike Newall
My husband is a new soccer fan and wants to spend $1,000 on World Cup ticketsRosa Cartagena and Abigail Covington
My husband is a new soccer fan and wants to spend $1,000 on World Cup ticketsRosa Cartagena and Abigail Covington
My partner and I can’t agree on whether the AC should be 70 or 80 degreesEarl Hopkins and Stephanie Farr
My partner and I can’t agree on whether the AC should be 70 or 80 degreesEarl Hopkins and Stephanie Farr
I keep running into my ex at our local bars. Do I have to find new ones?"Who says it has to keep being awkward?"Dugan Arnett and Beatrice Forman
I keep running into my ex at our local bars. Do I have to find new ones?"Who says it has to keep being awkward?"Dugan Arnett and Beatrice Forman
I'm worried I'm too fancy for our oldest friends, not fancy enough for new ones. What do I do?A simple wings test could solve the problem.Elizabeth Wellington and Mike Newall
I'm worried I'm too fancy for our oldest friends, not fancy enough for new ones. What do I do?A simple wings test could solve the problem.Elizabeth Wellington and Mike Newall
My neighbors treat the sidewalk like their personal patio. Am I rude for wanting quiet after 10 p.m.?"Heck, they could bring a six-pack with them and I’d bet it would help make broaching the subject even easier."Rosa Cartagena and Stephanie Farr
My neighbors treat the sidewalk like their personal patio. Am I rude for wanting quiet after 10 p.m.?"Heck, they could bring a six-pack with them and I’d bet it would help make broaching the subject even easier."Rosa Cartagena and Stephanie Farr
We moved our family to the suburbs and it's not going well. Should we move back?"There are different benefits to living in the suburbs (nature!) vs. the city (culture!)."Abigail Covington, Mike Newall, and Evan Weiss
We moved our family to the suburbs and it's not going well. Should we move back?"There are different benefits to living in the suburbs (nature!) vs. the city (culture!)."Abigail Covington, Mike Newall, and Evan Weiss
Is my boyfriend worth the gas money to Jersey?"It would grow old quick, again, if love weren’t involved."Abigail Covington and Jason Nark
Is my boyfriend worth the gas money to Jersey?"It would grow old quick, again, if love weren’t involved."Abigail Covington and Jason Nark
My boyfriend took me to his ex’s restaurant ... three times. Am I part of a psychological experiment?"Is there any meal in this city worth a humiliation ritual?"Elizabeth Wellington and Rosa Cartagena
My boyfriend took me to his ex’s restaurant ... three times. Am I part of a psychological experiment?"Is there any meal in this city worth a humiliation ritual?"Elizabeth Wellington and Rosa Cartagena
My neighbors are too chatty. How do I go home without being rude?"Maybe start yawning as you walk up the stairs, slump your shoulders, really sell it."Abigail Covington and Mike Newall
My neighbors are too chatty. How do I go home without being rude?"Maybe start yawning as you walk up the stairs, slump your shoulders, really sell it."Abigail Covington and Mike Newall
My roommate's girlfriend is basically living with us. At what point can I ask her to pay rent?"It's about boundaries, not rent."Beatrice Forman and Elizabeth Wellington
My roommate's girlfriend is basically living with us. At what point can I ask her to pay rent?"It's about boundaries, not rent."Beatrice Forman and Elizabeth Wellington
Someone keeps putting half-empty iced coffee cups on my steps. What do I do?"Talk to your neighbors. You might not be the only one."Earl Hopkins and Abigail Covington
Someone keeps putting half-empty iced coffee cups on my steps. What do I do?"Talk to your neighbors. You might not be the only one."Earl Hopkins and Abigail Covington
My boyfriend never wants to leave his Philly neighborhood. Is that a red flag?"Maybe don’t start by accusing them of having a side piece."Beatrice Forman and Abigail Covington
My boyfriend never wants to leave his Philly neighborhood. Is that a red flag?"Maybe don’t start by accusing them of having a side piece."Beatrice Forman and Abigail Covington
My neighbor's fertilizer smells awful. What can I do?"Maybe the smell will go away, but what do you do if they keep putting it down?"Elizabeth Wellington and Mike Newall
My neighbor's fertilizer smells awful. What can I do?"Maybe the smell will go away, but what do you do if they keep putting it down?"Elizabeth Wellington and Mike Newall
Should I fake being sick so I can go to the Phillies’ home opener?"I do think that 'I have to go to a baseball game' should be an acceptable reason to take a sick day in Philadelphia."Aubrey Whelan and Sam Ruland
Should I fake being sick so I can go to the Phillies’ home opener?"I do think that 'I have to go to a baseball game' should be an acceptable reason to take a sick day in Philadelphia."Aubrey Whelan and Sam Ruland
Do I make up an excuse or tell the truth to get out of a Shore house plan?"Shore houses are expensive. Time is precious."Amy S. Rosenberg and Mike Newall
Do I make up an excuse or tell the truth to get out of a Shore house plan?"Shore houses are expensive. Time is precious."Amy S. Rosenberg and Mike Newall
How do I trim my neighbor's tree without starting another feud?"The question is, do we do the hacking in the middle of the night? Or boldly in broad open daylight?"Evan Weiss, Elizabeth Wellington, and Abigail Covington
How do I trim my neighbor's tree without starting another feud?"The question is, do we do the hacking in the middle of the night? Or boldly in broad open daylight?"Evan Weiss, Elizabeth Wellington, and Abigail Covington
Two random teenagers threw snowballs at me, a grown man. What should I do?"Snowballs aren’t fun and games to me."Evan Weiss, Jason Nark, and Mike Newall
Two random teenagers threw snowballs at me, a grown man. What should I do?"Snowballs aren’t fun and games to me."Evan Weiss, Jason Nark, and Mike Newall